I hope you all had a pleasant Thanksgiving (if you are here in the U.S.) last week. Did you run out to shop during the day or the night - or did you at least wait until “Black Friday” to shop? Or are you waiting still to start shopping?
We had our Thanksgiving dinner, the two of us. I managed to bang my head - not once but twice - on the corner of the dining room table while putting away a table cover which should have been put away months and months ago - I bent over to put it in a bag and hit my head. I really screamed. Husband came in, “are you okay, and there, there’d” me and then gave me a lecture on making sure it was clear in front of me before bending over. He went back to cooking in the kitchen and I took 2 steps back and bent over again to put away the cover. I hit my head again on the same corner and same spot on my head - just less of the corner and got to listen to the lecture again. Worst of all it was the same spot on my head that I hit last month in our RV.
It was relatively easy to take out the china and items we needed. I had gone through the cabinet where it is all stored last year and donated a lot of items we did not need. Instead of needing to take out stacks and stacks of items, only one or two had to removed. How pleasant. I plan to work on the serving pieces stored in the living room next - I have better uses for the storage space there than bowls and platters we bought or received as gifts and have never used. Hmm, maybe I can finally get husband to hang two handled cups from when we were each a kid that match which are stored in the living room. He had the juice cup, I had the orange juice cup - but they match. They must have been popular cups for children back then.
The turkey had directions on it - basically we were to cook it at 325F, when the little popper popped we should test the breast with a thermometer and make sure it was at least 180F. There were also instructions to tent the turkey with foil and then remove same, and brush will oil a few times. Also on the turkey wrapping was a list of times to cook the turkey - only this said for a turkey cooked at 350F - 25 degrees higher than the instructions said to cook at. We discussed this - for a quite awhile. In the back of my head it seemed to me that I remember the same problem with the turkey from the same place last year, but could not remember what I did. We cooked it at the 325F with the logic that it could always be cooked more, but cooked not be cooked less if it was overcooked. About a half hour longer than the chart said (for cooking at 350F) the popper popped and I checked the turkey breast with a thermometer and it was 180F and rising. We took the turkey out and set it aside on the kitchen table to “set”.
In the interim we finished cooking other food items and had our soup. Husband then went to carve the turkey. The turkey breast looked wonderful as he carved into it - but as he went beyond the breast - the turkey was terribly undercooked. He finished carving the breast - moving it to another platter to do so. He then cut up the rest of the turkey - wings, legs, dark meat - and we placed it all on two oven trays to heat it further. I ended up with the 2 extra trays and 2 extra platters as a result of all this. We are not sure what went wrong - should we have cooked it at 350F instead? But the popper popped and it was the correct temperature on the thermometer. Husband has written a letter to the supermarket’s owner (this is one of those of stores where the owner’s photo is all off and he does the ads himself and is actually involved in his company day to day) asking what happened.
The dishes and all were washed Thanksgiving night. I have put all away. When I put my large platter back in the basement, I took out my “everyday” Christmas dishes and glasses. I washed them and we are using them. I move some of my normal everyday dishes higher in the cabinet - where I can’t normally reach stuff - to make room for these to fit in.
We had the leftover turkey etc for the second set of leftovers tonight. There is at least one dinner’s worth of turkey left - but that is all. It will either be eaten early next week or will be frozen.
We do not go shopping on Thanksgiving. We don’t go out for Black Friday sales either. Okay, one time husband wanted a small laptop that was going on Black Friday sale at a chain electronics store and we went and waited in line for it. He did get the laptop, but then again, it was still on sale at the same price - and in stock - the following week. It was not worth standing in line in the freezing cold. This store was rather well organized. There was a line. Items which were limited had coupons for them handed out to people by employees walking along the line, so the coupons were handed out to people based on where they were in line.
We have many times, including this year, while out on Friday to have lunch (at Wendys of course) and run errands gone past empty looking stores and malls by the time we went out. I had needed to renew a medication at the Walmart pharmacy and figured it would be ready over the weekend, but we were called Friday afternoon that it was ready decided to see how bad the crowds were. It was empty! Items which had been put out late Wednesday sealed up until the sales started, were still plentiful for the most part - husband started rooting through the DVDs. We have been in Walmarts again since then and still sale items are still in their displays - either less people came in than they thought would do so, or they intended for the sale items to be available long beyond last Friday.
When we woke up today I noticed the temperature was 61F - 61! I pointed this out to husband and suggested that today was the day to put up our outdoor Christmas decorations. He agreed. We checked our box at the post office, had lunch at Wendys and came home. We keep our outdoor decorations on a platform in the top of the garage. We used to have everything there for Christmas, but as we have aged and it is not that easy for husband to climb on a ladder and get everything - much is heavy - down, I moved the rest into our basement. He can now stand on his worktable (after clearing it off enough) and get the, only, two boxes of lights and wires, three potted artificial poinsettia, and 3 light up candy canes down. No more balancing on a ladder to hand me things. Much safer. We have some wreaths, swags, and such in our shed, but are not putting them up any longer - maybe again in the future.
We put the poinsettia in the same stands that hold our flowers the rest of the year. Husband made these poinsettia in pots. We bought artificial poinsettia which could go outside in the weather and 3 pots to fit the holders. He then bought a couple of cans of spray insulation - the kind that is a foam and expands to fit what it is in. He filled the pots and we added a poinsettia to each. The foam was topped with fake greens and they look great. 5 minutes and they are out in place.
We put lights on our bushes and a dwarf spruce tree. (The dwarf tree is now over 6 ft tall, I am so glad that I talked him out of a full size one.) Of course two set of lights did not work when tested - one of the ones which goes on the bushes and one that is red and white and goes around the white plastic pillar of our mailbox a bit of a candy cane look. We have in the boxes with the lights two electric boxes which stick into the ground. One is placed on one side of the front of our house and the other is placed on the other side of the front of our house. A long flat outdoor extension cord is plugged into the outdoor outlet and run across the front of the house, over the top of the stairs (under the door mat so no one trips) and the electric box on the side away from the outlet is plugged into it - and then the lights are plugged into the electric box. The electric box on the side of the house near the outlet is plugged into the other outlet in the wall box and the lights on that side of the front of the house plug into it.
After we put out and plugged in the lights that worked, we drove to Walmart to buy replacement. No white and red lights - no red lights on their own. We came back, put up the new light set on the bush that was short a set. Husband then took the red and white set into the garage, plugged it in and started shaking it. One half started working. So we wrapped the lit half of the strand around the mail box pillar and dropped the rest on the ground.
The wreath we bought last year for the front door was in the basement with the rest of the “in the house” decorations. The former one was decorated by husband as a copy of one we saw and liked at Colonial Williamsburg - only we used plastic fruit instead of real fruit so we could keep reusing it. The problem is that it had to hung on the outside of the storm door as it did not fit between the door and storm door - this involved annually rigging strands of fishing line around screws in the storm door and trying to adjust it so we could still see through the peep hole of the door - and remember we both on the short side. The new wreath has lights on it - lit by batteries with a timer so it is on for 6 hours every night at the same on and off time. Went up in less than 20 minutes with a magnetic hook on the door - and it is out of the weather, unlike the old wreath which if got covered snow might break free and fall.
So our house now looks presentable to the world. Husband is still trying to figure out where we could put one of those projector decorations - but the front of our house is just not set up for it.
Notice that because fixed place for the Christmas decorations in the garage and plastic boxes to hold the lights, wires, and plug in boxes for them, as well as an assigned spot in the basement to hold the Christmas decorations, it was easy and quick to find everything and put it out. The empty boxes in the garage were stacked on each other with the bags that the lights were kept in stored inside, relatively out of the way so that when we go to take down the lights - they will be easy to find again and then they will be put back up in garage along with poinsettia and the candy canes so that next week we will find them again.
Sometime next week I will put away my few Thanksgiving decorations in the house and then I will start putting out the Christmas ones. This year the holidays seem to be going okay.
THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK -
As you take out your holiday decorations and other items try to leave the packing in a way that it will be easy to find and put everything away after the holiday. If it is all a mess - try to figure out while you unpack items how you can better store them away at the end of the season to make them either to access next year, while not being in your way all year.
Thursday, November 30, 2017
Thursday, November 23, 2017
SEMI UNORGANIZED THANKSGIVING
Ah, the holidays are coming! Is panic setting in?
Last week I put out my few Thanksgiving decorations. A small setting of Pilgrim bear figurines going to Thanksgiving at a house in a tree. (I painted the tree and most of the bears from kits - in one case while I was supposed to making and getting the house ready for Thanksgiving dinner.) Other “human” Thanksgiving figurines and salt and pepper shakers and a pair of candleholders given me by a friend decades ago. Husband took me to “Thanksgiving world” - aka Plymouth, MA decades ago and I bought most of the assorted non-bear items there in gift shops.
I am sure I have mentioned before, but just in case I did not, my husband and I are of different faiths. I am Jewish and he is Roman Catholic. As a result we did not have that “whose family are we going to” problem for most family holidays. We went to my family for Jewish holidays and his family for Christian holidays. But then there was Thanksgiving.
Growing up, as well as an adult, Thanksgiving was my favorite holiday - and not just because I am an eater. It was the only uniquely American family holiday which was not religious based - it was/is a holiday for all Americans. Also there were no gifts - gifts I received tended to have nothing to do with me or anything I was interested in - especially beyond my immediate family - and I had to smile and say thank you - and then figure out what to do with the item - this was not a problem with Thanksgiving.
Now, it has been found that when the answer to what do you have for thanksgiving dinner - answer “turkey and all the trimmings” was further looked into, it was found that same varied greatly. For a while growing up our Thanksgivings were celebrated with my mom’s family and her sister-in-law (my aunt) had become kosher, so we would go to a kosher delicatessen restaurant for dinner. Mom would cook turkey during the year, so it was not what we wanted there. My sisters and I wanted corned beef sandwiches! The waiter would keep asking if we were sure and we were. They had handed us the complete regular menu after all, and that was our dinner. My husband’s family is from Italy. They would have a first course of some kind of macaroni (what we Americans call pasta). So while being the uniquely encompassing holiday, Thanksgiving is large enough to encompass all of various backgrounds.
While dating and the first few years we were married we would juggle which family we went to - generally we ended up with his family. One year I had the idea to have both families come to our tiny apartment for Thanksgiving dinner. He was shocked at the idea. Oh, one difference between our families is that my family tends (short of accommodating the kosher aunt) tends to eat at home for holidays, while his family eats out. We figured out a menu, found a place that has hot turkey pick up on Thanksgiving, and went ahead. It went fairly well - the entire living room filled with two long folding tables put end to end. For 25 years we made Thanksgiving dinner. Nieces and nephew came along. My dad died. A few times a friend or an in law of a family member was included. We moved one year at the end of October from our apartment to this house - and we made Thanksgiving dinner - and used the good china. It was the bedbugs which brought this to an end as we cannot bring ourselves to have anyone in the house.
Organizing? I see now how organized I was for those dinners. Now the two of us have our Thanksgiving dinner alone. At first we went to an inexpensive general food buffet restaurant and it was very nice as the manager made it feel party like. Then he left and it was not as nice and then finally the place closed. So on and off over the past several years I have made Thanksgiving dinner for the two of us. What a mess!
First of all, I never know if I am making dinner or if we are going out to an Asian buffet until the last minute. Last year we waited so long, we almost could not get a turkey which was not frozen - and that would not have defrosted in time. This year we bought a turkey this past Saturday.
In the old days I had a menu from the past to work with. We might change a dish or two, but basically it was the same menu. I have a spiral notebook with almost every dinner we made for Thanksgiving and the other holidays we took a turn out with, mostly, my family over the years. (I reached the end of the notebook using the right hand pages and now I am going backwards, using the left hand pages.) The first week in November I would start checking ads and buying things for the dinner, so at the last minute items like milk which had to be bought fresh were all that was left to buy.
Well, we went this past Sunday to the supermarket to start buying what we needed - without making a list of what we would make or what we needed. It was as if there was a combination hurricane and major snow storm announced at the same time! The parking lot was jammed. The store was jammed. We gave up and left. We then actually made up a list of what we would have and needed so when we went back Monday it was not as jammed - we actually went to another supermarket chain as they had items we were looking for on sale - and were able to buy almost all the items needed at the one supermarket, with a quick stop at the one from Sunday for 2 items we had not been able to get. Husband complained about the crowds - I told him flat out - “This is why I used to shop the first week of the month!”
We have baked a pie tonight. Everything else can be done tomorrow, Thanksgiving. I will set up the turkey tonight so when I get up really early tomorrow to put the turkey in the oven, I can go back to sleep a lot quicker.
While downstairs doing my regular Wednesday night laundry (I will not fall behind just because it is a holiday) I took out “the turkey platter”. This is a larger platter than our others and has a chip in it. We use it to put the turkey on to carve it and then use smaller ones for serving the turkey (whether for the family or just us). I washed it as it is kept in the basement. In the afternoon I brought a bunch of RV stuff (clean sheets, towels...) out to the RV so it is all out of the dinning room. I moved some stuff into place in the dinning room.
Tomorrow I will add one board to our dinning room table, instead of the four boards that I used to add for the family. I will cover it with a plastic/foam cover (I have them in sizes to fit all lengths of the table) and then my Thanksgiving tablecloth (much too large as it fits the table with four boards - so the ends of the table have long overhangs. One board is needed so that the serving plates and bowls fit on the table. I will take out 2 settings of my good china, one fabric napkin & one paper napkin, one of my good glasses & husband’s every day glass, and use my silver plate tableware. I will cook the dinner. I used to know - start the potatoes first as they will be mashed, and heated in the oven at the end, so get them out of the way as if they cool off it is okay. No idea what to start with these years - we are making boiled potatoes instead of mashed. No sweet potatoes this year - he likes them I don’t. And we will have our Thanksgiving dinner.
After dinner the extra food will be put away, and when you are two people with a 14 lb turkey, there is a lot to store away. The table will be cleared and I will wash (by hand) the dishes, pots, pans, etc. The napkin and tablecloth will be washed and dried (by machine) and I will probably also wash the last load of regular laundry which is normally washed on Thursdays nights. The garbage will go out to the can - no pickup until Monday.
I really miss the juggling of which dish to cook when. The baking Venetians (rainbow cookies) starting on Tuesday so they would be ready in time (jelly between layers has to sit weighted overnight). I miss spending all day Wednesday cooking beef vegetable soup from scratch. It used to be all so organized! Now with less to do it is all so disorganized. Well, at least I don’t have to clean well enough to have my (late) mother in law here. (One year my sister actually wrote the year in the dust!)
I do not go shopping on Thanksgiving - or on “Black Friday”! There is nothing I have ever seen offered on sale that was worth the crowds. Think about this - the more you buy, the more you have to deal with and organize. Do you really need this or that?
THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK -
I wish all a happy Thanksgiving!
Remember it is just one day - there will be joys and problems (one early year we cooked, shelled and peeled chestnuts for hours, then while they were cooling on the counter, I dropped a glass I had washed and was putting away - next to them and they had to be tossed as we were not sure if we could get all the glass shards out. The time with family - whether a large group or just two or even time alone - is what matters.
Take time to be thankful for what you have - don’t look for what you are lacking, even if there is much you are lacking. Stop and breathe and think about what you do have.
Last week I put out my few Thanksgiving decorations. A small setting of Pilgrim bear figurines going to Thanksgiving at a house in a tree. (I painted the tree and most of the bears from kits - in one case while I was supposed to making and getting the house ready for Thanksgiving dinner.) Other “human” Thanksgiving figurines and salt and pepper shakers and a pair of candleholders given me by a friend decades ago. Husband took me to “Thanksgiving world” - aka Plymouth, MA decades ago and I bought most of the assorted non-bear items there in gift shops.
I am sure I have mentioned before, but just in case I did not, my husband and I are of different faiths. I am Jewish and he is Roman Catholic. As a result we did not have that “whose family are we going to” problem for most family holidays. We went to my family for Jewish holidays and his family for Christian holidays. But then there was Thanksgiving.
Growing up, as well as an adult, Thanksgiving was my favorite holiday - and not just because I am an eater. It was the only uniquely American family holiday which was not religious based - it was/is a holiday for all Americans. Also there were no gifts - gifts I received tended to have nothing to do with me or anything I was interested in - especially beyond my immediate family - and I had to smile and say thank you - and then figure out what to do with the item - this was not a problem with Thanksgiving.
Now, it has been found that when the answer to what do you have for thanksgiving dinner - answer “turkey and all the trimmings” was further looked into, it was found that same varied greatly. For a while growing up our Thanksgivings were celebrated with my mom’s family and her sister-in-law (my aunt) had become kosher, so we would go to a kosher delicatessen restaurant for dinner. Mom would cook turkey during the year, so it was not what we wanted there. My sisters and I wanted corned beef sandwiches! The waiter would keep asking if we were sure and we were. They had handed us the complete regular menu after all, and that was our dinner. My husband’s family is from Italy. They would have a first course of some kind of macaroni (what we Americans call pasta). So while being the uniquely encompassing holiday, Thanksgiving is large enough to encompass all of various backgrounds.
While dating and the first few years we were married we would juggle which family we went to - generally we ended up with his family. One year I had the idea to have both families come to our tiny apartment for Thanksgiving dinner. He was shocked at the idea. Oh, one difference between our families is that my family tends (short of accommodating the kosher aunt) tends to eat at home for holidays, while his family eats out. We figured out a menu, found a place that has hot turkey pick up on Thanksgiving, and went ahead. It went fairly well - the entire living room filled with two long folding tables put end to end. For 25 years we made Thanksgiving dinner. Nieces and nephew came along. My dad died. A few times a friend or an in law of a family member was included. We moved one year at the end of October from our apartment to this house - and we made Thanksgiving dinner - and used the good china. It was the bedbugs which brought this to an end as we cannot bring ourselves to have anyone in the house.
Organizing? I see now how organized I was for those dinners. Now the two of us have our Thanksgiving dinner alone. At first we went to an inexpensive general food buffet restaurant and it was very nice as the manager made it feel party like. Then he left and it was not as nice and then finally the place closed. So on and off over the past several years I have made Thanksgiving dinner for the two of us. What a mess!
First of all, I never know if I am making dinner or if we are going out to an Asian buffet until the last minute. Last year we waited so long, we almost could not get a turkey which was not frozen - and that would not have defrosted in time. This year we bought a turkey this past Saturday.
In the old days I had a menu from the past to work with. We might change a dish or two, but basically it was the same menu. I have a spiral notebook with almost every dinner we made for Thanksgiving and the other holidays we took a turn out with, mostly, my family over the years. (I reached the end of the notebook using the right hand pages and now I am going backwards, using the left hand pages.) The first week in November I would start checking ads and buying things for the dinner, so at the last minute items like milk which had to be bought fresh were all that was left to buy.
Well, we went this past Sunday to the supermarket to start buying what we needed - without making a list of what we would make or what we needed. It was as if there was a combination hurricane and major snow storm announced at the same time! The parking lot was jammed. The store was jammed. We gave up and left. We then actually made up a list of what we would have and needed so when we went back Monday it was not as jammed - we actually went to another supermarket chain as they had items we were looking for on sale - and were able to buy almost all the items needed at the one supermarket, with a quick stop at the one from Sunday for 2 items we had not been able to get. Husband complained about the crowds - I told him flat out - “This is why I used to shop the first week of the month!”
We have baked a pie tonight. Everything else can be done tomorrow, Thanksgiving. I will set up the turkey tonight so when I get up really early tomorrow to put the turkey in the oven, I can go back to sleep a lot quicker.
While downstairs doing my regular Wednesday night laundry (I will not fall behind just because it is a holiday) I took out “the turkey platter”. This is a larger platter than our others and has a chip in it. We use it to put the turkey on to carve it and then use smaller ones for serving the turkey (whether for the family or just us). I washed it as it is kept in the basement. In the afternoon I brought a bunch of RV stuff (clean sheets, towels...) out to the RV so it is all out of the dinning room. I moved some stuff into place in the dinning room.
Tomorrow I will add one board to our dinning room table, instead of the four boards that I used to add for the family. I will cover it with a plastic/foam cover (I have them in sizes to fit all lengths of the table) and then my Thanksgiving tablecloth (much too large as it fits the table with four boards - so the ends of the table have long overhangs. One board is needed so that the serving plates and bowls fit on the table. I will take out 2 settings of my good china, one fabric napkin & one paper napkin, one of my good glasses & husband’s every day glass, and use my silver plate tableware. I will cook the dinner. I used to know - start the potatoes first as they will be mashed, and heated in the oven at the end, so get them out of the way as if they cool off it is okay. No idea what to start with these years - we are making boiled potatoes instead of mashed. No sweet potatoes this year - he likes them I don’t. And we will have our Thanksgiving dinner.
After dinner the extra food will be put away, and when you are two people with a 14 lb turkey, there is a lot to store away. The table will be cleared and I will wash (by hand) the dishes, pots, pans, etc. The napkin and tablecloth will be washed and dried (by machine) and I will probably also wash the last load of regular laundry which is normally washed on Thursdays nights. The garbage will go out to the can - no pickup until Monday.
I really miss the juggling of which dish to cook when. The baking Venetians (rainbow cookies) starting on Tuesday so they would be ready in time (jelly between layers has to sit weighted overnight). I miss spending all day Wednesday cooking beef vegetable soup from scratch. It used to be all so organized! Now with less to do it is all so disorganized. Well, at least I don’t have to clean well enough to have my (late) mother in law here. (One year my sister actually wrote the year in the dust!)
I do not go shopping on Thanksgiving - or on “Black Friday”! There is nothing I have ever seen offered on sale that was worth the crowds. Think about this - the more you buy, the more you have to deal with and organize. Do you really need this or that?
THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK -
I wish all a happy Thanksgiving!
Remember it is just one day - there will be joys and problems (one early year we cooked, shelled and peeled chestnuts for hours, then while they were cooling on the counter, I dropped a glass I had washed and was putting away - next to them and they had to be tossed as we were not sure if we could get all the glass shards out. The time with family - whether a large group or just two or even time alone - is what matters.
Take time to be thankful for what you have - don’t look for what you are lacking, even if there is much you are lacking. Stop and breathe and think about what you do have.
Thursday, November 16, 2017
IT'S NOT MY TIME ANY MORE
I know that I have mentioned that getting organized and my work - job work, house, and club treasurer work - done was much easier when my husband went out to work. Monday to Friday was basically my own time. I could do all my work in a couple of days if I wanted and relax the other days (never worked out that way though) or work a bit every day (more like most of every day) and so on.
I was/am self-employed so I have no boss to answer to. As long as I get my job work done by its due dates and accommodate my clients with times that are convenient for them, I could decide when to work at my job. This still applies, but I have to deal with husband and what he wants to do and work around that.
We share a home office - sit at desks across from each other - so I miss sitting there and making telephone calls for any of the various types of work I do with no one watching me, listening to me and often telling me what I am doing wrong, as well needing to make him at least mute the TV (I taught him to have the TV on while doing things, so this is my fault I guess) so that I can hear who I am talking to on the phone and they don’t hear Capt Picard loudly talking in the background (he keeps the TV on rather loud, to say it politely). I end up making telephone calls from bed instead, balancing paperwork and/or alternate PDAs on my lap so I can talk on my cell phone and still easily consult a calendar or bring everything down to the kitchen to use the table and still have to juggle what I am using. Even worse, there are calls I have to make that I don’t want him to hear and he doesn’t want to hear (mostly the doctor to make appointment for us as he does not like to know in advance) and to correct problem related to same. He commented to me that I had to make a couple of phone calls, in reference to picking new medical insurance for me for next years, and I pointed at a stack of papers - spread out in smaller stacks - and told him - “yes, as soon as I make all these other calls that are ahead of them”. A discussion followed on the problems I have making telephone calls - the above and also the fact that we spend too long outside every day running “errands”. I went a bit too far and had to apologize as I made him feel really bad - and I didn’t want to do that.
We wake up late (and stay up late) which is a problem and I am worse than him at this as I am used to waking up slowly and alone. We go out for lunch - despite my telling him before he quit his job that life is not a continuous vacation and we can’t eat out all the time - because he likes it and our lunches at Wendys cost no more than lunch at home - maybe even less. Now, if we went and ate and left that would be okay, but we sit there and watch CNN on the TV, well he does, I sort of hear it above me while I watch a European sports channel on the TV at the other end of the room. Then if it was up to me, we would go home, unless it was the day to food shop or some other needed errand. He does not want to go home and therefore we spend time in stores “Where can we go today” walking senselessly around the stores. We spent 2 hours yesterday buying food items to make dinner because I had mentioned a dish he used to cook and he decided to make it (I was trying to talk him into cooking). He could not find the kind of cheese he needed...
Now this week I had a bunch of problems hit me at once. A client I have had a problem with her credit card processor (I am sure I have mentioned this). I had called and dealt with it while she and I were both away. This week she is home and I need to go to her for the regular monthly accounting stuff. I had been told that the amount which was credit to her account was about $500 less than the sale that was being credited. So I telephoned on Monday (after the discussion above about telephones) to find out the breakdown of charges taken out - I was going to reimburse her for any fees resulting for my error and was told the amount I was told before was wrong and only the monthly fee that had also bounced back had been charged. I let out my breath - I didn’t have $500 to give her and was glad I did not have to. But, I was told, it looks like a sale she made is being held. Huh? It is a much larger sale than she normally makes and they need information to pay it. I got a list of the info and planned to get the info when I went in to her this week. I telephoned her Tuesday about it - she had telephoned me while I was out about it also. She had a telephone call that there was a problem with the sale - she was positive that she would never get the money for it from the processing company and there is a problem with IRS about it - because I had filled in a form wrong when she signed up with this company. Huh? She gave me the name and phone number of the man who called and I must talk only to him according to her - his number was a switchboard and she had no extension number or department name. I left a message with customer service at the number to call me. Today I called the department I spoke with about the sale on Monday, hoping it was the same department although a different phone number and the woman I had spoken with, very nicely tracked down how to contact him. I spoke with him and he needs a simple form. I know I did not fill in the original form and will deal with her about it. Tomorrow I will take care of all this, hopefully, when I go there.
I missed this month’s meeting of my embroidery group as we were away. Next month’s meeting is being led by a member and kits or part of kits and own material are needed for the meeting. It was mentioned at the meeting I missed to the members and a list was made for her to order for members. It occurred to me that not everyone was there who might want to do the project next month, and I contacted her about my sending out an email. I then did so with her info. The person who ran last month’s meeting, then sent me additional info about the supplies and I sent out another email to everyone - this one, for some reason, bounced back from one member because of what it said(?).
Our reenacting unit is doing an event midweek next week for a school. Suddenly the school needs paperwork - some I have to get from 3rd parties - including an invoice. We are not sure if the event will be on one day or the next (in case of rain the first day) and we are having trouble getting members who can come midweek. So I had to call the unit’s insurance company for part of the paperwork , do a form from IRS, and write 2 invoices (one for each day, just in case) and get them out.
Oh yes, the medical insurance I need to pick and sign up for? Well, after my call to the doctor on Monday I decided which one to take and we started to sign me up for it on the computer. Despite the fact that the signup period started November 1, the computer sign up was not yet working on November 11 and would start on the 15th (today), so we still have to go back and sign me up.
If my time was own as it used to be all this would be so much easier. Of course in addition to all this, I have had to reconcile bank accounts for us, our business, and both clubs, pay bills, juggle money in the bank so bills could be paid, plus all of the housework I could do. Due to weather and the fact that on Halloween when we went away, the recycling had not been taken, I put out 5 weeks of recycling this week. Similarly we had not been able to put out garbage last week - and the office garbage does not go out every week, only if the pail is full, I put out 5 bags of garbage for one pickup, instead of the usual 1.
Tomorrow I will drive for at least an hour, ride a subway for 15 minutes, then ride subway back 15 minutes and drive home for two - three hours (in is off peak, home is rush hour - sort of, 3 pm is rush hour these days) after working for 3 hours at client and it will not be fun this visit as I have to resolve the problems and make her understand what is going on with everything. Well, at least I get away from husband for the day and get to drive.
THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK -
One has to work with the time one has. Limits put on one’s times by someone else are just one more thing which has to be dealt with. Problems are not something which can be foreseen and planned for. We can only do what we can do.
Oh, and husband just came down and told me he made a sale on his online business and now, at 1:25 am, we have to get it ready to go out - and I do the paperwork.
I was/am self-employed so I have no boss to answer to. As long as I get my job work done by its due dates and accommodate my clients with times that are convenient for them, I could decide when to work at my job. This still applies, but I have to deal with husband and what he wants to do and work around that.
We share a home office - sit at desks across from each other - so I miss sitting there and making telephone calls for any of the various types of work I do with no one watching me, listening to me and often telling me what I am doing wrong, as well needing to make him at least mute the TV (I taught him to have the TV on while doing things, so this is my fault I guess) so that I can hear who I am talking to on the phone and they don’t hear Capt Picard loudly talking in the background (he keeps the TV on rather loud, to say it politely). I end up making telephone calls from bed instead, balancing paperwork and/or alternate PDAs on my lap so I can talk on my cell phone and still easily consult a calendar or bring everything down to the kitchen to use the table and still have to juggle what I am using. Even worse, there are calls I have to make that I don’t want him to hear and he doesn’t want to hear (mostly the doctor to make appointment for us as he does not like to know in advance) and to correct problem related to same. He commented to me that I had to make a couple of phone calls, in reference to picking new medical insurance for me for next years, and I pointed at a stack of papers - spread out in smaller stacks - and told him - “yes, as soon as I make all these other calls that are ahead of them”. A discussion followed on the problems I have making telephone calls - the above and also the fact that we spend too long outside every day running “errands”. I went a bit too far and had to apologize as I made him feel really bad - and I didn’t want to do that.
We wake up late (and stay up late) which is a problem and I am worse than him at this as I am used to waking up slowly and alone. We go out for lunch - despite my telling him before he quit his job that life is not a continuous vacation and we can’t eat out all the time - because he likes it and our lunches at Wendys cost no more than lunch at home - maybe even less. Now, if we went and ate and left that would be okay, but we sit there and watch CNN on the TV, well he does, I sort of hear it above me while I watch a European sports channel on the TV at the other end of the room. Then if it was up to me, we would go home, unless it was the day to food shop or some other needed errand. He does not want to go home and therefore we spend time in stores “Where can we go today” walking senselessly around the stores. We spent 2 hours yesterday buying food items to make dinner because I had mentioned a dish he used to cook and he decided to make it (I was trying to talk him into cooking). He could not find the kind of cheese he needed...
Now this week I had a bunch of problems hit me at once. A client I have had a problem with her credit card processor (I am sure I have mentioned this). I had called and dealt with it while she and I were both away. This week she is home and I need to go to her for the regular monthly accounting stuff. I had been told that the amount which was credit to her account was about $500 less than the sale that was being credited. So I telephoned on Monday (after the discussion above about telephones) to find out the breakdown of charges taken out - I was going to reimburse her for any fees resulting for my error and was told the amount I was told before was wrong and only the monthly fee that had also bounced back had been charged. I let out my breath - I didn’t have $500 to give her and was glad I did not have to. But, I was told, it looks like a sale she made is being held. Huh? It is a much larger sale than she normally makes and they need information to pay it. I got a list of the info and planned to get the info when I went in to her this week. I telephoned her Tuesday about it - she had telephoned me while I was out about it also. She had a telephone call that there was a problem with the sale - she was positive that she would never get the money for it from the processing company and there is a problem with IRS about it - because I had filled in a form wrong when she signed up with this company. Huh? She gave me the name and phone number of the man who called and I must talk only to him according to her - his number was a switchboard and she had no extension number or department name. I left a message with customer service at the number to call me. Today I called the department I spoke with about the sale on Monday, hoping it was the same department although a different phone number and the woman I had spoken with, very nicely tracked down how to contact him. I spoke with him and he needs a simple form. I know I did not fill in the original form and will deal with her about it. Tomorrow I will take care of all this, hopefully, when I go there.
I missed this month’s meeting of my embroidery group as we were away. Next month’s meeting is being led by a member and kits or part of kits and own material are needed for the meeting. It was mentioned at the meeting I missed to the members and a list was made for her to order for members. It occurred to me that not everyone was there who might want to do the project next month, and I contacted her about my sending out an email. I then did so with her info. The person who ran last month’s meeting, then sent me additional info about the supplies and I sent out another email to everyone - this one, for some reason, bounced back from one member because of what it said(?).
Our reenacting unit is doing an event midweek next week for a school. Suddenly the school needs paperwork - some I have to get from 3rd parties - including an invoice. We are not sure if the event will be on one day or the next (in case of rain the first day) and we are having trouble getting members who can come midweek. So I had to call the unit’s insurance company for part of the paperwork , do a form from IRS, and write 2 invoices (one for each day, just in case) and get them out.
Oh yes, the medical insurance I need to pick and sign up for? Well, after my call to the doctor on Monday I decided which one to take and we started to sign me up for it on the computer. Despite the fact that the signup period started November 1, the computer sign up was not yet working on November 11 and would start on the 15th (today), so we still have to go back and sign me up.
If my time was own as it used to be all this would be so much easier. Of course in addition to all this, I have had to reconcile bank accounts for us, our business, and both clubs, pay bills, juggle money in the bank so bills could be paid, plus all of the housework I could do. Due to weather and the fact that on Halloween when we went away, the recycling had not been taken, I put out 5 weeks of recycling this week. Similarly we had not been able to put out garbage last week - and the office garbage does not go out every week, only if the pail is full, I put out 5 bags of garbage for one pickup, instead of the usual 1.
Tomorrow I will drive for at least an hour, ride a subway for 15 minutes, then ride subway back 15 minutes and drive home for two - three hours (in is off peak, home is rush hour - sort of, 3 pm is rush hour these days) after working for 3 hours at client and it will not be fun this visit as I have to resolve the problems and make her understand what is going on with everything. Well, at least I get away from husband for the day and get to drive.
THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK -
One has to work with the time one has. Limits put on one’s times by someone else are just one more thing which has to be dealt with. Problems are not something which can be foreseen and planned for. We can only do what we can do.
Oh, and husband just came down and told me he made a sale on his online business and now, at 1:25 am, we have to get it ready to go out - and I do the paperwork.
Thursday, November 9, 2017
I HATE THE AFTERMATH OF TRIPS
Just in case anyone was wondering - after a week my head barely hurts if I touch where I hit it last week. ( I mean if I touch my head where it was hurt, not the board I hit it on.) My dad, a man of great wisdom, would say - “If your head hurts when you touch it, then don’t touch it.
The worst part of a trip, to me, is when I come home I have to do everything I didn’t do while away (and, of course, things I didn’t do before we went away). Husband never understands this idea.
We are pretty good at emptying out the RV when we return home - I have a system. There are two plans for emptying it, the regular plan and the “its raining and we can’t bring it all in plan”. In the normal plan, I start packing stuff and husband becomes a beast of burden running it all into the house. I am basically working in sections in a circle around where I am standing in the RV. First is the refrigerator, followed by food in plastic boxes in the cabinet. Husband will unpack the refrigerator items into the one in the house. I shut off the refrigerator in the RV and put a thick towel under the freezer section just in case any ice buildup melts and drips. (It does not have a separate freezer section, but a “cold” box as refrigerators did in “the olden days” - like the 1950s. Ice cream purchased in the evening will be soft ice cream when eaten at 2 am - cold soup beyond that. I take the batteries of the refrigerator thermometer and its remote read device.
The towels are added to the laundry bag of clothes and when the bag goes into the house it is tossed down the stairs to the basement. I pack the clean clothes (we always over pack - doesn’t everyone) and bring an extra day or two of clothes in case something happens to something we are wearing while away and we need to change clothes unexpectedly, they go into the other laundry bag and go by the stairs in the house so they go up the same night. Jackets, sweatshirts and such are taken in loose. Shoes are put into supermarket/Walmart shopping bags to be taken in.
Husband will take various laptops and other devices into the house in a couple of trips. Similarly he will take in my embroidery holder. The “last minute bag” is pulled out from under the bed and the items removed from it go back into it. This trip we also pulled toothpaste and such as we don’t want to leave them in all winter - we did that the first year and they did not survive well.
Any items we purchased while away and stored inside the main part of the TV are brought into the house and left on the table to be sorted and stored. (Hey, I just noticed that sorted and stored are anagrams - the same letters rearranged - is why they go together so well?)
On the “third seat” (seat behind the front passenger seat) we have a pocket with a folder in it which holds papers we pick up during the trip - tourist handouts, maps, local tourist magazines, and such, as well as magazines we brought from home to read - they go in similar bag to the shoes.
Assorted spare eyeglasses (reading, sun, etc.) that are needed and/or kept elsewhere are removed from the glove compartment as are the snacks I keep in the front door map pocket in case of a glucose low for either of us while in transit. In there is also the coupon holder from our car (if I need, for example, tissues while away, why shouldn’t I have the coupon with me to use) and the travel related coupons we brought with us. My old Palm and Blackberry cell phones which come along for the trip for other features of the phones have to be removed also. The EZ Pass (to pay tolls electronically) is removed from the windshield and stored away.
The various curtains in the RV are closed. The lights are shut off and the RV battery is shut off.
Between trips with items I had for him, husband has removing items we purchased and stored in he back of the RV (technically under the head of the bed) and adding them to what is on the kitchen table in the house.
I stop and get the mail from our mailbox on the way in. If it is a short trip and we did not stop the newspaper (yes, I still get and read a newspaper) I will bring them in also.
If it is raining - the food and stuff in the last minute bag go in and not much else unless it is needed.
Now I enter the house kitchen . I have to sort what has come in - food which does not need to be in the refrigerator goes on the counter. Food that goes in the refrigerator should already have been put there by Robert. Clean clothes, laptops & similar, mail, shoes, and such are put on the stairs or adjacent to them to be taken upstairs. Jackets and such are put in the front closet - or at least over the post at the foot of the stairs in the front hall. And the pile of stuff on the table.
The stuff on the table has to be sorted - stuff to go upstairs, stuff to stay in the kitchen/dinning room, stuff for the basement, stuff for our studio - or the garage workshop. I sort them into shopping bags and try to at least get them into the room they belong in - or hang them on the door knob to outside if the item goes outside.
But of course this is just the first step. The next day I will have to go through the mail- shred the junk mail, pull out and check bills, collect bank statements (if any) to reconcile, magazines to where they will be read, and so on. We will also go to the Post Office and pick up the mail which has accumulated in our box there, which also has to be sorted.
Food in boxes will have to be stored - I tend to do it slowly and use what is in the boxes. They are basically snacks so I use the cereal which was not used on the trip instead of storing it away, use the tea bag from the ones I brought with us, etc.
Since this was our last trip of the year that we will make with running water in the RV, I said to husband that I presume we will winterize the RV this week - he said we could wait. For those who might not understand this, in areas like this where it can get close to freezing and below it, the water pipes and valves might freeze and break. So we have to run a non-toxic anti freeze, made for this purpose for RVs and boats, through the water system. This keeps it all from freezing, but also means that we cannot use the system as that would be adding water which could freeze back in the system. Well, the not so cold weather we were having and were to have is to change by this weekend. So the winterizing must be done this week.
In addition, we needed a small closet type shed to keep our snowblower in by our side door. (It is currently in the garage workshop and not only does it take up room, but if it snow we have to shovel our way to the garage and clear a path in front of the garage door so a shed near the door would be very good to have.) Last year we waited too long to buy one - they have to be assembled above a certain temperature so that plastic gives and bends and does not break in the assembling. Husband kept forgetting to order one from a well known home store and finally decided this was it. We wanted to order one to pick up at the store. The program would not let us as it said the store already had “one”. So we went to the store. It took about an hour and a half for them to find the shed, get someone to take it down from the top shelf (maybe 20 feet or more up), us to take it to the register and pay for it (well, husband did while I got the van), have no one come to help us load it, realize the box inside the sealed plastic was soaked, find the assistant manager again, get the other one (yes, per the computer they had one, but actually they had two), and get someone to help us load it. It then sat in our van on the driveway until we could assemble it.
Monday was too cold, Tuesday it rained. (And of course we went and voted Tuesday.)So today we assembled it - mostly. We had to get the huge box out of our van - we managed to push it so it was in the rear of the van (behind the back seat) and on a work stand and unloaded. Today was already getting colder so we took all the pieces into the garage and turned on the hanging space heaters to keep the plastic pieces warm and pliable. We moved our car to the curved part of our driveway, then backed the RV to the spot the car normally is so we would have room to work. Somehow we were able to assemble most of the shed. Husband then got ill from bending over, as he does, and had to go in and go to sleep for awhile. I finished getting the roof ready to go on - screwing parts onto the inside of the room, putting things into the body of the shed to hold the roof in place, putting the handles on the doors. (The doors were about the worse part of the assembly except...) When it was all done, I went and woke husband who after about a half hour more, was able to come out and we put the roof on - yay! The last thing which had to be done and is a problem is two metal bars have to be slid into the roof and across into the sides to hold the front end of the roof on - we got one in, then gave up and will try again tomorrow as it was getting colder and dark.
Remember he said that we don’t have to winterize this week when I said I assumed we were going to? Tomorrow we will be winterizing the RV.
Luckily when he said that we would be doing these “little chores” today and tomorrow, I managed to write checks for all bills due out on Friday and figure out how much we have to transfer into checking to cover them - it is all finished and sitting in my “out” box for Friday.
THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - When going on a trip - even a short, relatively local one as we take - try to be as caught up as possible before the trip. Try to plan when you will catch up on bills, other paperwork, unpacking, laundry (I am doing a week and a half’s laundry tonight and tomorrow night), and such, when you return.
For those who are Veterans or who are still on active service, Friday is Veteran’s Day here in the U.S. and is a holiday for many of those who live in the World War II allies countries (Armistice Day, Remembrance Day...) as Saturday is November 11, I thank you all for your service to your country - whether the U.S. or other. For those of you still on active service, I wish you a safe tour and return home.
The worst part of a trip, to me, is when I come home I have to do everything I didn’t do while away (and, of course, things I didn’t do before we went away). Husband never understands this idea.
We are pretty good at emptying out the RV when we return home - I have a system. There are two plans for emptying it, the regular plan and the “its raining and we can’t bring it all in plan”. In the normal plan, I start packing stuff and husband becomes a beast of burden running it all into the house. I am basically working in sections in a circle around where I am standing in the RV. First is the refrigerator, followed by food in plastic boxes in the cabinet. Husband will unpack the refrigerator items into the one in the house. I shut off the refrigerator in the RV and put a thick towel under the freezer section just in case any ice buildup melts and drips. (It does not have a separate freezer section, but a “cold” box as refrigerators did in “the olden days” - like the 1950s. Ice cream purchased in the evening will be soft ice cream when eaten at 2 am - cold soup beyond that. I take the batteries of the refrigerator thermometer and its remote read device.
The towels are added to the laundry bag of clothes and when the bag goes into the house it is tossed down the stairs to the basement. I pack the clean clothes (we always over pack - doesn’t everyone) and bring an extra day or two of clothes in case something happens to something we are wearing while away and we need to change clothes unexpectedly, they go into the other laundry bag and go by the stairs in the house so they go up the same night. Jackets, sweatshirts and such are taken in loose. Shoes are put into supermarket/Walmart shopping bags to be taken in.
Husband will take various laptops and other devices into the house in a couple of trips. Similarly he will take in my embroidery holder. The “last minute bag” is pulled out from under the bed and the items removed from it go back into it. This trip we also pulled toothpaste and such as we don’t want to leave them in all winter - we did that the first year and they did not survive well.
Any items we purchased while away and stored inside the main part of the TV are brought into the house and left on the table to be sorted and stored. (Hey, I just noticed that sorted and stored are anagrams - the same letters rearranged - is why they go together so well?)
On the “third seat” (seat behind the front passenger seat) we have a pocket with a folder in it which holds papers we pick up during the trip - tourist handouts, maps, local tourist magazines, and such, as well as magazines we brought from home to read - they go in similar bag to the shoes.
Assorted spare eyeglasses (reading, sun, etc.) that are needed and/or kept elsewhere are removed from the glove compartment as are the snacks I keep in the front door map pocket in case of a glucose low for either of us while in transit. In there is also the coupon holder from our car (if I need, for example, tissues while away, why shouldn’t I have the coupon with me to use) and the travel related coupons we brought with us. My old Palm and Blackberry cell phones which come along for the trip for other features of the phones have to be removed also. The EZ Pass (to pay tolls electronically) is removed from the windshield and stored away.
The various curtains in the RV are closed. The lights are shut off and the RV battery is shut off.
Between trips with items I had for him, husband has removing items we purchased and stored in he back of the RV (technically under the head of the bed) and adding them to what is on the kitchen table in the house.
I stop and get the mail from our mailbox on the way in. If it is a short trip and we did not stop the newspaper (yes, I still get and read a newspaper) I will bring them in also.
If it is raining - the food and stuff in the last minute bag go in and not much else unless it is needed.
Now I enter the house kitchen . I have to sort what has come in - food which does not need to be in the refrigerator goes on the counter. Food that goes in the refrigerator should already have been put there by Robert. Clean clothes, laptops & similar, mail, shoes, and such are put on the stairs or adjacent to them to be taken upstairs. Jackets and such are put in the front closet - or at least over the post at the foot of the stairs in the front hall. And the pile of stuff on the table.
The stuff on the table has to be sorted - stuff to go upstairs, stuff to stay in the kitchen/dinning room, stuff for the basement, stuff for our studio - or the garage workshop. I sort them into shopping bags and try to at least get them into the room they belong in - or hang them on the door knob to outside if the item goes outside.
But of course this is just the first step. The next day I will have to go through the mail- shred the junk mail, pull out and check bills, collect bank statements (if any) to reconcile, magazines to where they will be read, and so on. We will also go to the Post Office and pick up the mail which has accumulated in our box there, which also has to be sorted.
Food in boxes will have to be stored - I tend to do it slowly and use what is in the boxes. They are basically snacks so I use the cereal which was not used on the trip instead of storing it away, use the tea bag from the ones I brought with us, etc.
Since this was our last trip of the year that we will make with running water in the RV, I said to husband that I presume we will winterize the RV this week - he said we could wait. For those who might not understand this, in areas like this where it can get close to freezing and below it, the water pipes and valves might freeze and break. So we have to run a non-toxic anti freeze, made for this purpose for RVs and boats, through the water system. This keeps it all from freezing, but also means that we cannot use the system as that would be adding water which could freeze back in the system. Well, the not so cold weather we were having and were to have is to change by this weekend. So the winterizing must be done this week.
In addition, we needed a small closet type shed to keep our snowblower in by our side door. (It is currently in the garage workshop and not only does it take up room, but if it snow we have to shovel our way to the garage and clear a path in front of the garage door so a shed near the door would be very good to have.) Last year we waited too long to buy one - they have to be assembled above a certain temperature so that plastic gives and bends and does not break in the assembling. Husband kept forgetting to order one from a well known home store and finally decided this was it. We wanted to order one to pick up at the store. The program would not let us as it said the store already had “one”. So we went to the store. It took about an hour and a half for them to find the shed, get someone to take it down from the top shelf (maybe 20 feet or more up), us to take it to the register and pay for it (well, husband did while I got the van), have no one come to help us load it, realize the box inside the sealed plastic was soaked, find the assistant manager again, get the other one (yes, per the computer they had one, but actually they had two), and get someone to help us load it. It then sat in our van on the driveway until we could assemble it.
Monday was too cold, Tuesday it rained. (And of course we went and voted Tuesday.)So today we assembled it - mostly. We had to get the huge box out of our van - we managed to push it so it was in the rear of the van (behind the back seat) and on a work stand and unloaded. Today was already getting colder so we took all the pieces into the garage and turned on the hanging space heaters to keep the plastic pieces warm and pliable. We moved our car to the curved part of our driveway, then backed the RV to the spot the car normally is so we would have room to work. Somehow we were able to assemble most of the shed. Husband then got ill from bending over, as he does, and had to go in and go to sleep for awhile. I finished getting the roof ready to go on - screwing parts onto the inside of the room, putting things into the body of the shed to hold the roof in place, putting the handles on the doors. (The doors were about the worse part of the assembly except...) When it was all done, I went and woke husband who after about a half hour more, was able to come out and we put the roof on - yay! The last thing which had to be done and is a problem is two metal bars have to be slid into the roof and across into the sides to hold the front end of the roof on - we got one in, then gave up and will try again tomorrow as it was getting colder and dark.
Remember he said that we don’t have to winterize this week when I said I assumed we were going to? Tomorrow we will be winterizing the RV.
Luckily when he said that we would be doing these “little chores” today and tomorrow, I managed to write checks for all bills due out on Friday and figure out how much we have to transfer into checking to cover them - it is all finished and sitting in my “out” box for Friday.
THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - When going on a trip - even a short, relatively local one as we take - try to be as caught up as possible before the trip. Try to plan when you will catch up on bills, other paperwork, unpacking, laundry (I am doing a week and a half’s laundry tonight and tomorrow night), and such, when you return.
For those who are Veterans or who are still on active service, Friday is Veteran’s Day here in the U.S. and is a holiday for many of those who live in the World War II allies countries (Armistice Day, Remembrance Day...) as Saturday is November 11, I thank you all for your service to your country - whether the U.S. or other. For those of you still on active service, I wish you a safe tour and return home.
Thursday, November 2, 2017
TRIP WENT AWRY - AGAIN
We have not been on a trip really this year as each time we planned one, something happened. We traditionally go away for my birthday and planned to be away for 5 days for it. We were to leave on Monday and return home overnight Friday to Saturday. Once again our plans went awry. A huge nor’easter (for those not from the U.S. this is a MAJOR wind and rain storm and is considered a winter storm, even though it does not involve snow) was to hit us Sunday through Monday. Luckily we had not made reservations at the RV park in advance - this time of year the parks are usually not anywhere near full here in the northeast U.S. and since we go midweek - we avoid the possibility of the park filling with weekend guests - as well as avoiding the crowds that come to the Pennsylvania Dutch country.
When we going on Monday we planned to start packing the RV on Sunday night with plenty of time on Monday to finish doing so as we would not be in a rush. I made up the bed in the RV last week to have it done in advance - I pull the blanket and sheets over the pillows to keep them free of dust.
I have a checkoff sheet that I keep in the computer and print out each trip to make sure we don’t forget anything. The check off sheet includes a section on things to be done in advance - making the bed, filling the water tanks, checking supplies such as toilet paper, tissues, paper goods, soaps & paper towels, and so on. Then there is a section on personal items - clothes, shoes, jackets, my embroidery - I don’t list the clothing items individually as we know what we need in clothes. I have a food section as we bring items for snack - soda, cracker, water, cereal - and on longer trips I will bring soup, peanut butter and bread - just in case. We have never used the latter, although one lunch time in a bad rain storm we came close. There is a section of electronics to come - laptops and such. There is a section of paper items to bring - coupon holders, directions, reservations (I actually keep an envelope for each of our regular trips for reservations, coupons and other papers I want to bring). There is also a section of what to do before we leave - unplug the washer, turn off the dryer and stove breakers, take out the garbage when we leave. And, lastly, there is a section of what needs to be done when we return - what not to forget in the RV when it is unpacked, turn off the refrigerator, lights and RV battery, and related matters. Very organized -right?
We were planning to go to a farmers’ market on Tuesday so we had to be out and on the way early (for us). I packed the RV Monday night except for our “last minute bag” which has things we need the night before so they cannot be prepacked and my laptop computer. Our plan was for me to call and make a reservation Tuesday morning just after 9 am as the RV park office opens at same. I called. I got a message telling me the office opens at 9 am - at 9:10 am. I left a message to call me back and we kept going. Husband was upset about what would happen if there was no RV space available. I pointed out that he keeps telling me the RV need to be driven; he was looking forward to going to the farmers’market, and I wanted to be away for my birthday (if you have not calculated - this is Halloween - there is much less of same where we were going than at home). I told him that at worst we would have had a day trip and accomplished all 3 things and would come home that night. We left. When we leave I direct him to back out of our driveway using walkie talkies. We also use these for me to direct him into the space at the RV park. Since it was Halloween we wanted to make sure that the house did not look too different as if we were away, so when he was out of the driveway, I drove one of our other cars into where the RV usually sits - and then ran and got into the RV and we were off.
Along the way - around 11 am - I finally was able to make reservations, although not for any of the spaces we prefer - and so far this trip 2 of the 3 spaces we prefer have remained empty and the 3rd was empty tonight. The trip down was actually better than most - much less traffic. When we got to the farmers’ market it was freezing - or at least it felt so to me. I had on 2 sweatshirts and wished I had brought gloves. I had thought of treating myself to ice cream
for lunch for my birthday - there is a stand at the market (actually they are at both markets we go to) that always has a crowd and the ice cream looks yummy, so I thought I would go off my diet and have it for lunch - I planned this last year and the stand was closed. This year it was open, but I was so cold, I could not imagine doing so. We went around at the market and then had dinner (mine was free as it was my birthday) took a walk around Walmart (as we normally do) and went to the RV park.
Being level is very important in an RV - or doors will not open or will fall open and one is uncomfortable. One problem, while driving today on the trip here, I realized that we only had one walkie talkie - the other one I had left in the car at home when I moved it! I waited until we were in Walmart to mention it to husband and quickly suggested alternatives - including buying a pair of walkie talkies in Walmart (which is why I told him then). We decided we would deal with it by using our cell phones. The only level spot we could find in this space was on an odd angle - which we would have to duplicate the next two nights when we came back at the end of the day. We then settled in for the night.
I checked email on my (this laptop) and unpacked the last minute bag. Then we went to get ready for bed. The bed in the RV consists of two bench seats which face each other and two pieces of wood which slide between them and then the bench seat cushions are rearranged into the bed. I was kneeling down to store the laptop and some other items under the bed (the center which would be the aisle between the bench seats is used for storage) and as I bent down towards the bed - WHACK!!! I slammed my head into one of the insert wood pieces. I figured out that I had not pushed it all the way into position between the beds, so where I thought was an open space or wood covered with cushion - was the wood. Owwwww! We checked and there is no bump or bruise. I checked for signs of concussions - none - I made sure to stay awake for several hours to make sure. Tonight, 24 hours later my forehead still hurts if I move the muscles in my face a certain way or if I (or husband who of course does so often to make sure I am okay) touch it.
It was so cold that we had turn on the propane to run the propane furnace in the RV. We had to be very careful and many things could not go where they normally go at night and that nothing flammable was near the furnace. We made it through and should not need the furnace tonight (there is alternate heat down to 40F from a heat sink in the air conditioner).
I then took our medications to take and to replace in our pocket pill boxes to take today. I forgot the over the counter vitamins and such that the doctor has I take - they are either sitting on our kitchen table or my dresser at home. Oh well, at least we have the prescription medications.
Unfortunately all of this mess is becoming more and more common when we take trips. No matter how organized and prepared we think we are - we are not. Well, somehow we always deal with what needs to be dealt with.
THOUGHT OF THE WEEK -
Mistakes happen. There is nothing to do but go ahead as well as possible. No matter how much I try to figure out in advance what can happen and what to do - something else will happen and will need to be dealt with all one can do is one’s best.
When we going on Monday we planned to start packing the RV on Sunday night with plenty of time on Monday to finish doing so as we would not be in a rush. I made up the bed in the RV last week to have it done in advance - I pull the blanket and sheets over the pillows to keep them free of dust.
I have a checkoff sheet that I keep in the computer and print out each trip to make sure we don’t forget anything. The check off sheet includes a section on things to be done in advance - making the bed, filling the water tanks, checking supplies such as toilet paper, tissues, paper goods, soaps & paper towels, and so on. Then there is a section on personal items - clothes, shoes, jackets, my embroidery - I don’t list the clothing items individually as we know what we need in clothes. I have a food section as we bring items for snack - soda, cracker, water, cereal - and on longer trips I will bring soup, peanut butter and bread - just in case. We have never used the latter, although one lunch time in a bad rain storm we came close. There is a section of electronics to come - laptops and such. There is a section of paper items to bring - coupon holders, directions, reservations (I actually keep an envelope for each of our regular trips for reservations, coupons and other papers I want to bring). There is also a section of what to do before we leave - unplug the washer, turn off the dryer and stove breakers, take out the garbage when we leave. And, lastly, there is a section of what needs to be done when we return - what not to forget in the RV when it is unpacked, turn off the refrigerator, lights and RV battery, and related matters. Very organized -right?
We were planning to go to a farmers’ market on Tuesday so we had to be out and on the way early (for us). I packed the RV Monday night except for our “last minute bag” which has things we need the night before so they cannot be prepacked and my laptop computer. Our plan was for me to call and make a reservation Tuesday morning just after 9 am as the RV park office opens at same. I called. I got a message telling me the office opens at 9 am - at 9:10 am. I left a message to call me back and we kept going. Husband was upset about what would happen if there was no RV space available. I pointed out that he keeps telling me the RV need to be driven; he was looking forward to going to the farmers’market, and I wanted to be away for my birthday (if you have not calculated - this is Halloween - there is much less of same where we were going than at home). I told him that at worst we would have had a day trip and accomplished all 3 things and would come home that night. We left. When we leave I direct him to back out of our driveway using walkie talkies. We also use these for me to direct him into the space at the RV park. Since it was Halloween we wanted to make sure that the house did not look too different as if we were away, so when he was out of the driveway, I drove one of our other cars into where the RV usually sits - and then ran and got into the RV and we were off.
Along the way - around 11 am - I finally was able to make reservations, although not for any of the spaces we prefer - and so far this trip 2 of the 3 spaces we prefer have remained empty and the 3rd was empty tonight. The trip down was actually better than most - much less traffic. When we got to the farmers’ market it was freezing - or at least it felt so to me. I had on 2 sweatshirts and wished I had brought gloves. I had thought of treating myself to ice cream
for lunch for my birthday - there is a stand at the market (actually they are at both markets we go to) that always has a crowd and the ice cream looks yummy, so I thought I would go off my diet and have it for lunch - I planned this last year and the stand was closed. This year it was open, but I was so cold, I could not imagine doing so. We went around at the market and then had dinner (mine was free as it was my birthday) took a walk around Walmart (as we normally do) and went to the RV park.
Being level is very important in an RV - or doors will not open or will fall open and one is uncomfortable. One problem, while driving today on the trip here, I realized that we only had one walkie talkie - the other one I had left in the car at home when I moved it! I waited until we were in Walmart to mention it to husband and quickly suggested alternatives - including buying a pair of walkie talkies in Walmart (which is why I told him then). We decided we would deal with it by using our cell phones. The only level spot we could find in this space was on an odd angle - which we would have to duplicate the next two nights when we came back at the end of the day. We then settled in for the night.
I checked email on my (this laptop) and unpacked the last minute bag. Then we went to get ready for bed. The bed in the RV consists of two bench seats which face each other and two pieces of wood which slide between them and then the bench seat cushions are rearranged into the bed. I was kneeling down to store the laptop and some other items under the bed (the center which would be the aisle between the bench seats is used for storage) and as I bent down towards the bed - WHACK!!! I slammed my head into one of the insert wood pieces. I figured out that I had not pushed it all the way into position between the beds, so where I thought was an open space or wood covered with cushion - was the wood. Owwwww! We checked and there is no bump or bruise. I checked for signs of concussions - none - I made sure to stay awake for several hours to make sure. Tonight, 24 hours later my forehead still hurts if I move the muscles in my face a certain way or if I (or husband who of course does so often to make sure I am okay) touch it.
It was so cold that we had turn on the propane to run the propane furnace in the RV. We had to be very careful and many things could not go where they normally go at night and that nothing flammable was near the furnace. We made it through and should not need the furnace tonight (there is alternate heat down to 40F from a heat sink in the air conditioner).
I then took our medications to take and to replace in our pocket pill boxes to take today. I forgot the over the counter vitamins and such that the doctor has I take - they are either sitting on our kitchen table or my dresser at home. Oh well, at least we have the prescription medications.
Unfortunately all of this mess is becoming more and more common when we take trips. No matter how organized and prepared we think we are - we are not. Well, somehow we always deal with what needs to be dealt with.
THOUGHT OF THE WEEK -
Mistakes happen. There is nothing to do but go ahead as well as possible. No matter how much I try to figure out in advance what can happen and what to do - something else will happen and will need to be dealt with all one can do is one’s best.
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